Hollywood comedy legend Adam Sandler may have one of the most stable marriages in the entertainment industry, but when it comes to his friend Travis Kelce, he says advice isn’t necessary. The Kansas City Chiefs star, recently engaged to global superstar Taylor Swift, already knows what it takes to build a lasting love.
During the red-carpet premiere of Sandler’s latest film Jay Kelly at the New York Film Festival on September 29, the 59-year-old actor and comedian was asked about the high-profile couple. His response was simple and heartfelt: Kelce doesn’t need tips because he’s already deeply in love.
Sandler on Kelce and Swift’s Relationship
“He’s all good,” Sandler said when asked about Kelce. “He loves Taylor more than anything—just like I love my wife more than anything.”
It was a short but telling comment from the Happy Gilmore star, who has been married to actress Jackie Sandler since 2003. The actor went on to explain that the true secret of a relationship is being able to be yourself with your partner. “The goal is to be happy together, be yourself together,” he said. “That’s where they’re at. That’s where me and my girl are at, too.”
A Longtime Marriage Built on Love
Sandler’s marriage has often been described as one of Hollywood’s most enduring romances. He and Jackie tied the knot in 2003 and share two daughters, Sadie (19) and Sunny (16). Jackie frequently appears in his films, and the couple has managed to keep their personal life grounded despite the pressures of Hollywood fame.
The Sandlers are often praised for their low-drama, family-first approach. Many fans look at them as proof that long-term relationships in Hollywood are possible. With that perspective, it makes sense that reporters would ask Adam if he has any wisdom to share with Kelce and Swift. But in Sandler’s mind, the couple is already doing just fine.
Sandler’s Previous Comments on Swift and Kelce
This isn’t the first time Sandler has spoken about the now-engaged couple. Back in August 2024, he appeared on an episode of Kelce’s New Heights podcast, where he shared just how much his family loves seeing Taylor and Travis together.
“When you guys first started dating, my family was like, ‘Yes! Look how good they are together,’” Sandler recalled. “They loved seeing how much fun she had with you. Anytime Taylor’s laughing with you, my family is high-fiving each other.”
Kelce jokingly responded, “You got me sweating over here,” showing just how much Sandler’s approval meant.
Taylor Swift’s Bond with the Sandler Family
Taylor Swift isn’t just admired by Sandler—she also shares a sweet connection with his daughters. Sandler revealed that Swift once spent time with Sadie and Sunny on the set of Saturday Night Live. Over the years, her music has become a major part of the Sandler household.
“What a girl,” Sandler said in one interview. “She means so much to our house. Since the kids were little, we’ve listened to every song. It reminds me of when I was a kid listening to The Beatles or Elton John, where you know every tune by heart.”
Sandler praised Swift’s lyrics, melodies, and messages, explaining how they’ve influenced not just his daughters, but fans across generations. “She means so much to young girls, to women, and even to guys trying to do the right thing in life.”
The Engagement of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce
The fairytale engagement between Swift and Kelce was officially announced on August 26, 2025, after two years of dating. Their relationship began in a very modern, yet playful, way. Kelce first tried to give Swift a friendship bracelet with his phone number on it during her Eras Tour concert in July 2023. Although that attempt didn’t work out, Kelce publicly expressed his interest on his podcast, and soon after, the two began dating.
From the start, fans and media outlets couldn’t get enough of their romance. Kelce, one of the NFL’s biggest stars, and Swift, one of the world’s most influential artists, seemed like an unlikely pairing at first—but quickly proved that their relationship was built on genuine affection and support.
Their engagement was celebrated worldwide, with social media lighting up as fans shared excitement for the couple’s next chapter.
Why Sandler Thinks They’ll Be Fine
For Sandler, the bottom line is that Kelce and Swift already embody the essentials of a lasting relationship: love, laughter, and authenticity. He doesn’t feel the need to offer advice because he sees the strength of their bond.
Sandler’s words also reflect his own marriage philosophy. Over the years, he has consistently said that the secret to his relationship with Jackie is prioritizing family, having fun together, and respecting each other’s individuality. In many ways, he sees those same qualities in Swift and Kelce.
Adam Sandler’s New Film: Jay Kelly
While Sandler has been busy talking about his friends’ love story, he’s also promoting his own project. His new film, Jay Kelly, premiered at the New York Film Festival and will be released in select theaters on November 14, 2025, followed by a Netflix release on December 5, 2025.
The film marks another step in Sandler’s evolution from slapstick comedy to more layered and heartfelt performances, following acclaimed roles in Uncut Gems and Hustle. Jackie and their daughters were at the premiere to support him, once again showing the importance of family in his career and personal life.
Final Thoughts
Adam Sandler’s perspective on Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement is refreshingly positive. Instead of offering clichéd advice, he simply acknowledged the depth of their love. For someone who has enjoyed a successful marriage for over 20 years, his words carry weight.
Kelce and Swift’s journey—from a friendship bracelet to an engagement—has captivated millions. With Sandler cheering them on, it seems this couple has the support of both fans and Hollywood friends as they prepare for their next chapter.